Monday, October 25, 2010

dont think too much!

Salam..hye dear bloggie..
looks lyke i meet up wif u frequently ryte..
huhu=p dats mean i am still not dat bz..as 4 da tyme being at least..
b4 i get too bz..u might be missing me again..hee=p

see the title for diz post??
DONT THINK TOO MUCH!!
dat was wat ppl keep on saying to me..
but i cant stop from THINK TOO MUCH..
how am i supposed to handle dat..
currently..i just handle it by making myself calm..wif any kind of methods..
haha! looks pretty TOO MUCH ryte..i noe..
but dat is how it goes..

my frens do say diz once..
DONT THINK TOO MUCH..U WILL LOOK OLD..
haha=p i guess its a lil true..but ony happends weneva i wear my lenses..
not wen i wore my glasses..izit?? i dunno..
different ppl..different judgments..
but i dun mind..as long as i am happy..
plus..der is sum ppl who think dat i am in secondary school=p
so..no worries..
but i guess i shud really stop THINK TOO MUCH..
it is tiring..my mental is tired..n it gives me terrible headache at d end..
guess dats me..=p
k then..

p/s: may da besh things happend..we just need to pray..n HIM will do da rest! =)

3 comments:

• azra • said...

i used to think too much. u noe i do. but not anymore. i've learnt the simple art of not to think too much.

let me teach you, my friend.

the art of not to think too much is simple. first, decide who/what/where is a priority in your life. that guy who stalks you - not a priority. kak azra - priority (simple, right?)

next, learn the art to not be too hard on yourself. don't blame yourself for almost everything. shit happens. fine, move on. and don't worry. worrying eventually leads to a waste of time cause what you were worried about so much either didn't happen or wasn't as bad as you expected to be.

then, the real truth in how to not think too much - take life 1 day at a time. don't think about next month or year or 15 years ahead. for once, stop planning a too distant future. start by finding the small details in life that makes you happy & plan outings! look at the little things that makes you happy and smile. either it's something pink or a green butterfly that makes you think of someone (and buy the things for yourself, you deserve it!). and plan outings! always make time to socialize because anticipating something to the weekend makes you less worried or bored in the weekdays.

to sum it all up on how to not think too much - you have to learn how to live (i'm going to do this cause i believe it's the right thing/so what if they're not on the same page, i'm happy to go ahead with what i believe in), not thinking about how to do it (should i do this?/what would they think if i did this?).

So, Jujue learn how to live. i finally did. and i'm very much happy. i've moved on from being a pessimist, a worrywart and a think-too-mucher.

attraversiamo, jue.
(translation: let's cross over, jue)



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^jujue^ said...

haha!i'll b the 1st to buy ur book!
anyhow thanx a million!
i do aways think ahead..
aways worried wat ppl might think..
u r totally ryte..
i hv to learn to plan things..
in fact,i ady think of cameron..haha!
might be going but need my dad green lights..*pray hards*
n kak azra..27 nov..i cant come over..
my cousie weds..rmmbr u attend his engagement dat day..his da one..=)
thanx again sista!!

• azra • said...

hi jue, no worries!
i'm pretty booked towards year end anyway. tak brani nak bwat komitmen with any1 bcos byk sgt adhocs.
bln januari dtg ok? wpun i hv 2 go penang (not sure when). my bday maaa, if u missed it, siap arrr... :)